The Vulamathuba Bursary Fund hosts quarterly mentorship sessions for bursary recipients, dedicated to empowering and educating adult learners with the skills and knowledge necessary for academic success. These sessions focus on developmental areas for the cohort, featuring experts in the field. The aim is to promote lifelong learning while fostering personal development.
The second session of Vulamathuba’s mentorship programme was nothing short of exceptional! With 55 participants filling the room, we delved into the powerful topics of parenting and sexual health. This was not merely another session; it was a day filled with learning, laughter, and honest discussions that left everyone eager for more.
Parenting with a Purpose: Making Maslow Work for You
Our session commenced with the Family Counselling Centre, who impressed everyone with their insights on parenting as a working student. They didn’t simply address the challenges of juggling work, studies, and raising children; they practically illustrated how Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs impacts every aspect of life.
Maslow’s theory emphasises the importance of fulfilling our basic needs, such as feeling safe and loved, before we can thrive in other areas of life. The Family Counselling Centre’s advice was rich with practical tips on how to create a home where children feel secure and supported, even when life gets hectic. It was the sort of talk that had everyone in the room nodding in agreement, thinking, “I can do this!”
Breaking Barriers: The Truth About Sexual Health
The excitement continued with a dynamic session led by four energetic peer educators from the University of the Western Cape’s HIV and AIDS unit. These young leaders did not hold back; they delved straight into the heart of sexual health, tackling challenging topics such as consent and debunking common myths.
Their approach was fresh and engaging, making everyone feel comfortable discussing topics that are often deemed taboo. They were on a mission to break down the barriers of silence and misinformation, particularly in communities where these conversations are infrequent. The room buzzed with interest as they shared facts and stories that left everyone more informed and confident.
A Participant’s Reflection: The Power of Open Conversations
One participant shared a story that resonated deeply. “Growing up, sex was never discussed. It was almost a dirty word in our house. My father simply said it was wrong, and that was the end of it. But now, I see how crucial those conversations could have been. When something is forbidden but not explained, you only want to know more, which can lead to mistakes. After a challenging start with my own sexual experiences, I was fortunate enough to become a father, even though I wasn’t prepared. These sessions have opened my eyes, and I’m striving to be the kind of dad who talks to my child about these issues. Seeing those young educators speak so openly made me realise how much society is evolving, and I’m proud to be part of that change.”
What’s Next? A Question for You
As we prepare for our next session, we want to leave you with a thought: How often do we truly discuss with our children the things that matter most, whether it’s their feelings, safety, or even sex? Are we guiding them with wisdom, or are we leaving them to navigate these issues on their own? It’s a question worth pondering as we continue our journey together.
Get in touch
Our third mentorship session is approaching, and we’re just getting started! To join this growing movement, contact us at admin@Vulamathuba.org.za or call 021 421 6008. We’re excited to hear from you!